Want a sibling for a child, but don\’t know if it\’s the right time? Want another child but don\’t know if the time is right?
When is the right time to have a sibling, and how do you prepare for it?
One, two, or three children? Sometimes everything doesn\’t go according to plan, but if everything is going well, you may want to think about when it is time to add another family member. Some women want to take longer maternity leave but would prefer to have a child with them, while others need a break between children. When you think that time has come, imagine life with two children. It makes a huge difference, and furthermore, each child is different. Just because the first baby is a good baby and sleeps through the night doesn\’t mean the second will be the same. Furthermore, the birth of a sibling will bring more changes than you are willing to admit.
Babies need care, but so do older children
What is the ideal age difference between siblings? No one can say, as everyone has different preferences. However, if the age difference between the children is small, you must take into account that you will have to take care of the baby who has not yet learned to walk, talk, use the toilet or eat by himself. Therefore, it is clear that both children will need your care and supervision at all times. On the other hand, if the second child is born when the older child is already in daycare or school, you will have an independent child at home and more time to care for the newborn. However, the family\’s financial situation and the mother\’s work situation must also be addressed. If the parental leave is too long, problems may arise at work. Even returning to work can become much more difficult.
Sibling Relationships
The first child must also be prepared for the arrival of another family member. If you have a mental picture in your mind of siblings getting along beautifully and playing together, consider for a moment the possibility that it could turn out quite differently. Many parents have to deal with sibling rivalry and jealousy toward the older child, not to mention the fact that it takes a really long time after the second child is born for the two children to be able to play together.
But if you know you never want an only child, the time may never come to have a second child. Only after the baby is born will you know that everything will work out. It is up to you and sometimes up to nature.
