You thought you would live as a family forever and never thought of divorce, but suddenly everything has changed? How do you start living again?
Do you want to start living and dating again after your divorce? Be cautious, don\’t be in a hurry!
You already had your life pretty well planned out, living under the assumption that you would grow old together and raise lots of children and grandchildren, and suddenly all the cards have changed? Divorce is not uncommon today, but that does not mean that the loss of a partner or life certainty does not hurt or shake us up. Especially if we did not count on this to happen. After a divorce, women feel broken. Just be careful where and how you look for your next partner.
As it is
You had children, assets, everything was going well, and suddenly the blow came? Did he leave you and even divorce you? At such times, everything seems lost and one finds little strength to move forward. It is really hard to start raising a child on your own, and even harder to balance work and family. But there is a time for everything. At first, try to accept your situation as it is. Don\’t humiliate yourself or try to convince your partner to stay with you. Instead, accept everything and do the best you can. After the sad times are over, you will find that there are many interesting people around you.
It\’s about you
If you feel ready to date again after your divorce, that\’s great news. But be warned. Women tend to be very vulnerable and, more importantly, eager after such a life disappointment. They want to settle down again, they want a new life partner, but the easier it is for them, the more likely they are to get burned again. Don\’t be in a hurry, go out with people, go to exhibitions, have a drink with friends, take the kids to the cinema or to the park. Always be somewhere, don\’t be sad, smile, but remember that you are the most important. It\’s about you, so think about yourself and don\’t get involved in shady relationships. Dating is fine, and you can try it out there. But beware of desperate people who try to talk you out of it just because they\’ve been single for a long time, too.
Be selective and go on a few dates. After your divorce, you will not be a lonely wretch; on the contrary, you will be a free woman. And that is priceless.
